Girls worldwide are boldly challenging traditional gender norms in creative and often hidden ways for safety. A new global study by Plan International and Cardiff University found 63% of girls resist norms secretly—earning money or forming friendships away from caregivers’ eyes.
Nearly half openly defy expectations despite risks to their safety. This resistance is a powerful act of political engagement.
Forms of Resistance and Risks Involved
Girls resist by playing boys’ sports, questioning unequal chores, demanding sex education, and advocating personal choice. These acts are often overlooked but represent brave political statements. However, public resistance risks punishment; 83% reported physical punishment for disobedience. Consequently, many hide their resistance, highlighting urgent need for safer support systems.
The Power of Listening and Support
Girls don’t want to be heroes—they want adults to hear and support them without fear of harm. When caregivers and communities prioritize girls’ well-being over restrictive norms, social transformation follows. For example, Juliana from Brazil defied family expectations to play football, eventually gaining acceptance and support through persistence and adult allies.
How to Support Girls’ Leadership and Rights
The study urges governments to strengthen equality laws, ban corporal punishment, and fund girls’ leadership education. Schools must offer safe spaces and comprehensive sex education. Caregivers and community leaders should listen, respect, and model equality. NGOs can empower girls by challenging norms and building confidence and skills, ensuring girls resist safely and successfully.
FAQs About Girls’ Everyday Resistance
Q1: Why do many girls resist gender norms secretly?
Public resistance can lead to punishment or violence, so secrecy ensures their safety while asserting independence.
Q2: What kinds of acts count as everyday resistance?
Playing “boys” sports, requesting education on sexuality, questioning chores, or forming relationships independently are examples.
Q3: How can adults best support girls resisting gender norms?
By providing safe spaces, listening without judgment, advocating for protective laws, and promoting equality at home and school.
Girls’ everyday resistance, though often quiet, is a critical force for gender equality worldwide. Their courage coupled with adult support can create safer, fairer futures where all girls thrive without fear.
